Life Lately | Six Years |

May 24, 2013 by

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Happy Friday, friends! I’m mixing up today’s Life Lately post a bit as Sunday marks a big date on the calendar. Brandon and I will be ringing in six whole years! Six years?!? Where does the time go? This whole 20s period- yeah, too fast, people. TOO FAST.

The calendar aside, I thought I’d take a moment today to share some of my biggest lessons learned over the past six years, when it comes to being in a relationship. The two of us have come to make quite a team, and I really have to remind myself daily of how lucky I am! Of course, I also tell Brandon all the time how lucky he is to have me, naturally. That said, relationships don’t come without their ups and downs, and we’ve definitely had our fair share. The good news is that the longer we’re together, the easier it becomes to recognize those moments as opportunities that ultimately bring us closer together. So…. here goes!

Maintain Perspective A good friend of mine once said, “Don’t end a relationship over a sink of dirty dishes.” In other words, learn not to sweat the small stuff. Ok yes, dirty dishes should be a shared duty, but you get where I’m going with this. It’s so important to maintain perspective when it comes to the big picture of your relationship and learn to let go of the little things that don’t really matter in the long run. I’m a total work in progress here!

Truly Accept Each Other Like truly. I’ve found it’s really easy to gloss over this one. It’s so easy to be like yeah yeah we accept each other! And then constantly nitpick over the little things. The aha moment for me was realizing there are always going to be these little things for both of us. We’ve gotten really good at making fun of each other for our silly (aka annoying) habits and just moving on!

Maintain Your Independence Last year due to a combo of work and vacation travel, Brandon and I were apart for a whole month. I remember telling people this and getting the response, “How will you survive?!?!” I was so perplexed! Sure we’d miss each other, but I’m a firm believer that it’s a good thing to miss each other now and then in a relationship. And to maintain your independence. Along with doing things together, I think it’s also important for the health of  a relationship to go out with friends from time to time on your own, engage in separate activities, and so forth.

Laugh. As much as you can. Admittedly a little corny, but truly, the more you can laugh, the easier it will be to weather the occasional storm. How’s that for a relationship metaphor. 

And lastly, get yourself some good sounding boards! My go tos are my mom and a handful of friends in their mid 30s (<– those people are gold).

Any big relationship tips you guys have? I’d love to hear! Also, check back in tomorrow for a roundup of CC Memorial Day recipes to get you all prepped for the holiday weekend. Hope yours is a good one! xx

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Introducing… CC Summer Office Hours!

May 23, 2013 by

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 Illustration by Ann Shen for Channeling Contessa

I am beyond excited to announce a new CC project that’s been in the works for quite some time. As you guys may or may not know, along with executing events, the majority of my freelance work consists of helping companies and organizations develop their social and digital media strategies. That’s a fancy way of saying I teach them how to tweet, run a successful blog, brand their online personality, implement digital marketing campaigns, and so forth. Since I began doing this work, I always had it in the back of my mind that one day, I wanted to support individual bloggers, freelancers, and small business owners in the same way.

A few months back I got really serious about the idea. At the tail end of some business travel I finally put pen to paper and began jotting down ideas. How did I want to help individuals? What would the services look like? I knew when the words literally did not stop flowing, it was time to bite the bullet, swallow my fears and put a plan into place. Today I’m thrilled to see that plan come to fruition and launch CC Summer Office Hours! Here are the details:

What are CC Summer Office Hours? They’re one-on-one consulting sessions with yours truly, focused on helping you build a better blog and stronger online presence, as well as develop and refine your social and digital media strategies. The sessions are broken down into three distinct service areas:

Blogging for Business: Many people often think CC is my full time job, but it’s really only a small portion. Why devote so much time to something that isn’t paying all my bills? Aside from a deep seated love for blogging, CC continually serves as the biggest source of client work for my consulting business. This is my marketing platform. I firmly believe that a well executed blog can serve as a tool unlike any other to generate new business, increase sales, and grow revenue for any industry. This session is devoted to helping freelancers and small business owners (in a service or product based business) build or finesse a blog that acts to fully leverage your products and services, without making it something that eats up all your free time.

Build a Better Blog For You:  All too often I see bloggers trying to mimic content that’s already out there, rather than build out their own individual online space. Blogging is only successful (and fun!), if you stay true to yourself. This session is meant for all bloggers (total newbies to seasoned veterans), who are looking to jumpstart their online space and assistance in developing original content that’s truly reflective of their personal brand. We’ll work through developing your “blog brand,” creating content that sets you apart, mapping out a manageable editorial calendar, and tweaking your social media strategy so it all works to your advantage. This session is highly customizable, and meant for both business owners and general bloggers alike who are looking to either start a blog the right way, or give their current one a makeover.

Student to Blogger: My only regret when it comes to blogging is that I wish I had started sooner, as in during college! Because of that, when dreaming up these sessions, I knew I wanted to devote one session to current undergrads. A well curated blog can take you farther than you ever imagined when it comes to building your career. This session is dedicated to college students looking to start and run a blog during their undergraduate years that can work to their advantage when it comes to applying for jobs and entering the work force, or planting the seed for their future business ventures. Please note, if you’re a student and currently have a blog- this session applies to you as well.

How do the sessions work? After scheduling your session, I’ll send you a detailed questionnaire via email so I can learn more about your business, current blog, or long terms goals (depending on your situation). Once you’ve completed the questionnaire we’ll schedule a 75 minute call and get to work!

What do I get?

  • One 75-minute one-on-one phone consultation (international clients will use Skype)
  • A detailed outline of notes from our call, including a customized set of action items to put your plan for creating a successful blog into place

How do I set up a session? Send me an email at clara@clarapersis.com with a summary of your needs, reasons for setting up a session, and the session you’d like to purchase. If you’re not sure which session is best for you- that’s fine! Once you’ve sent along your background I can help you determine which one is most appropriate based upon your needs.

I’ll be offering sessions from Monday, June 3rd through Friday, August 30th. Since I’ll be balancing things with my regular clients, I’ll be offering a limited number of sessions each month, so sign up sooner rather than later to reserve your spot! To schedule a session, get the lowdown on costs, and access a laundry list of FAQs around these consultations, head over to the CC Summer Office Hours page.

It goes without saying none of the above would be possible without all of you. The sweet devoted people who come back day after to day to say hello and see what we’ve been writing about- you make all the difference! So if I haven’t said thank you enough- thank you thank you thank you, from the bottom of my heart!

Now let’s get this summer started- shall we?

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Girl Crush: Jeanine // Love and Lemons

May 22, 2013 by

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Have you been introduced to Jeanine, of Love and Lemons? It’s hard to miss her signature food photography on Pinterest (with that white marble backdrop!), and her blog is admittedly the first place I turn when I’m looking for something healthy and delicious. Although we’ve been followers of Love and Lemons for a while, we wanted to know a bit more about Jeanine’s day to day life, and what goes into the blog we know and love.

Where did you grow up, and where did life lead you once you left? I grew up outside of Chicago and moved to Austin after college. Had to get away from those winters! I love to travel all over, but I’m happy to call Austin home.

What jobs have you held in the past, and what’s your current day job? I’ve been a graphic designer for number of years, working at various studios before going out on my own. Currently, my day job is made up of design projects, recipe development, food styling & an assortment of content development work.

How did you first get into cooking? Any formal training? My mom always cooked, so I’d say I learned the basics from her. But it was my first trip to Italy that inspired my passion for it. Italy changes people.

Love and Lemons has the most incredible recipes – what made you start blogging? What have you learned since your first post? At first, I just wanted a place to record what I was making. I’m usually a terrible note-taker so blogging has forced me to write things down. I also wanted a place to recap little every-day moments. I can easily remember vacations and special occasions, but “regular” days have a way of blurring into one another. My strongest memories are associated with food so it felt like the perfect format.

 I’ve learned so much since the first post – from how to use social media (I had previously avoided it at all costs), to how to make certain foods look pretty (risotto, I’m talking to you). It’s also been fascinating to learn what types of foods my readers respond to the most. I’m sure other bloggers see traffic boosts when they post bacon or cupcakes… but the ingredient my readers seem most obsessed with is cauliflower. I mean, who knew?

How much time does one recipe take from idea to final post? That can vary quite a lot, and it largely depends on the type of post. But sometimes it’s the simplest things that end up taking forever, and the more complex projects end up working out quickly. It all depends on the flow of the day.

How do you balance life and blogging? I don’t really. I’m constantly working on it or thinking about it. I’m always on the lookout for inspiration, so it’s on my mind even when I’m choosing restaurants, vacations, etc.

What’s your morning routine? I wake up to my little puppy biting my hair. (No alarm clocks needed here!). I get up, feed the dogs, then make breakfast and pour coffee. I head to the computer and usually start the day editing photos or writing posts before moving on to other projects.

 Favorite part of your day? happy hour

Your dream weekend involves… Long walks and good food. Bonus points if the long walks and good food are happening in an exotic location, but a simple stroll around our own town makes me pretty happy.

Three products you can’t live without: Chameleon cold brew coffee, avocados, and the obvious… lemons.

Your guilty pleasure: the box of “weekday” wine in my fridge.

Most recent happy purchase: The cupcake I ate about 15 minutes ago.

Plans for this summer: Not sure yet. Hopefully a trip of some sort, but I usually don’t plan those things until the very last minute.

Something about you most people wouldn’t realize or know: I realize my blog looks pretty clean and organized, but I’m kind of a mess. There’s laundry on the floor, and I can hardly see my computer desktop because so many file icons are piling on top of each other.

Thanks, Jeanine! It’s reassuring to know that you enjoy the occasional cupcake, and that we might just find a box of wine in your fridge!

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Dressed to Entertain: Mediterranean Dinner

May 21, 2013 by

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My entertaining style is definitely of the more laid-back variety. That’s probably why I, Lauren, like summer entertaining the best, as this time of year just lends SO naturally to gathering friends together over simple, fresh food. As we head into the warm months, I know I’ll be hosting as many casual get-togethers as possible on our patio. Who’s with me? So today I wanted to share a little outfit inspiration for your summer entertaining needs.

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Dressed to Entertain: Mediterranean Dinner | Perpetually Chic for Channeling Contessa

Between daydreaming about our next vacation (we’re thinking Greece & Turkey) and anxiously waiting to use a set of melamine plates (in brilliant shades of blue) that I snapped up a few weeks back for outdoor entertaining, I’ve being feeling completely inspired to host a Mediterranean-style al fresco dinner at our home. Add to that the fact that our current favorite dinner (as in, we’re eating it weekly) is to set out a feast of Mediterranean dishes like spiced chicken kabobs, apricot-mint couscous, homemade hummus, cucumber-tomato-feta salad and grilled flatbread, it seems only fitting that we take dinner for two and turn it into dinner for a crowd of friends, very soon.

Dressed to Entertain: Mediterranean Dinner | Perpetually Chic for Channeling Contessa

Dressed to Entertain: Mediterranean Dinner | Perpetually Chic for Channeling Contessa

Dressed to Entertain: Mediterranean Dinner | Perpetually Chic for Channeling Contessa

Inspired by the Mediterranean theme of the food and a casual yet chic vibe, I paired some of my favorite summer staples—white jeans, comfortable espadrilles and a straw fedora—with a just-perfect top in my favorite color combination. I love how the top’s easy, breezy fit balances out the skinny leg of the jeans while also showing off your sun-kissed arms. The white stitching around the edges of this top also had me at hello—I’ve said it before, but I’m a total sucker for good details!

Dressed to Entertain: Mediterranean Dinner | Perpetually Chic for Channeling Contessa

Dressed to Entertain: Mediterranean Dinner | Perpetually Chic for Channeling Contessa

Dressed to Entertain: Mediterranean Dinner | Perpetually Chic for Channeling Contessa

To me, this outfit balances seasonal style and comfort like no other…it’s a simple look I’ll definitely be wearing on repeat all season long. What are your summer fashion and entertaining staples?

Get the Look: Anthropologie Top | AG Jeans | Gaimo Espadrilles (bought in Spain, similar here) | Straw Fedora (similar) | Crate & Barrel Plates | Target Tumblers

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Coffee Coconut Milk Ice Cream & Hot Fudge Sundaes

May 20, 2013 by

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I’ve been on a major coconut product kick, as made clear by my instagram feed. I now make all my granola with coconut oil, we’ve started throwing a dollop of coconut milk into our smoothies instead of using yogurt, and this weekend marked my first foray into coconut milk ice cream. This seemed like a no brainer to me. I mean, is it just me or it is really hard to believe coconut milk is dairy free when you first open a can? It’s so rich and thick! Of course you’d make ice cream with it. This recipe is incredibly simple and yields great results. The coconut milk churned just like regular ice cream, and once frozen became the farthest thing from your typical vegan dessert. A key thing to note is that the ice cream doesn’t have a strong coconut flavor, like you would think. So if you’re not a coconut lover, I’m gonna venture to say you’ll still like it- especially if you add the coffee. This hot fudge sauce is not vegan, but you could easily forego it and mess around with other chocolate based ice cream mix ins. But if you aren’t vegan, you better be making this hot fudge sauce.

Here’s to a great week and the first CC ice cream recipe of the season! We’ve got so many good posts across the next few days and an especially exciting announcement on Thursday. Let’s do this!

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Coffee Coconut Milk Ice Cream  from The Minimalist Baker
Serves 6

  • 2 15 oz cans full fat coconut milk
  • 3/4 cup regular sugar
  • 3/4 strong brewed coffee
  • 1 1/2 tsp vanilla extract

Combine coconut milk, coffee and sugar in a small saucepan over medium heat and whisk until well combined – about 5 minutes.Remove from heat and whisk in vanilla. Transfer to a bowl to let cool completely in the fridge – at least 6 hours, overnight being preferable.Transfer to ice cream maker and prepare according to manufacturer instructions (I let mine churn for about 20 minutes, at which point it was done). Pour into tupperware container, smooth out top, and press plastic wrap directly to the ice cream. Cover with tupperware lid. Let harden fro several ours in freezer. Let stand for 15 minutes at room temperature before serving. Top with hot fudge, sprinkles, etc!

Hot Fudge Sauce adapted slightly from Smitten Kitchen
Yields 2 1/2 cups

  • 4 ounces unsweetened chocolate
  • 3 tablespoons butter, unsalted
  • 2/3 cup water
  • 1/3 cup sugar
  • 6 tablespoons corn syrup
  • Pinch of salt
  • 1 tsp vanilla extract
  • 2 tablespoons strong brewed coffee (optional)

Melt the chocolate and butter very slowly in a double boiler or in the microwave, stirring frequently until combined. Meanwhile, heat the water to boiling in the small, heavy saucepan. When the butter and chocolate have melted, stir the mixture into the boiling water. Add the sugar, corn syrup and salt and mix until smooth. Turn the heat up and stir until mixture starts to boil; adjust heat so that sauce is just maintained at the boiling point, stirring occasionally. Allow sauce to boil for nine minutes.

Remove from heat and cool for 15 minutes. Stir in the vanilla and coffee and serve warm over ice cream.

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Weekend Wishes

May 18, 2013 by

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Have: a French breakfast (Doesn’t a cappuccino and a croissant sound amazing? I’ve just discovered a wonderful crepe place nearby. Their lemon sugar crepes are my favorite.)

Wear: dressed up basics (I love how using an unexpected fabric or print can update such a basic item. This charcoal silk shirt would get a lot of use in my closet.)

Dine: outdoors (It really does makes any meal better.)

Have a relaxing weekend!

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Life Lately | May 17th |

May 17, 2013 by

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{ The perfect ice cream for your weekend }

Is it me or did it really kind of start to feel like summer this week? Perhaps it’s the warmer temps we’ve had towards the end of this week, or the fact that we watched fireworks in lower Manhattan from the balcony of our Brooklyn apartment last night (anyone know what those were for?!?), but it really is starting to feel like summer. In true CC form I whipped out the ice cream maker last night- look forward to a recipe from that foray on Monday! Here’s what else has been on my mind this week:

  • I’ve been very focused on being easier on myself lately. This is sort of  a constant struggle for me, something I’m always working to be better at- placing less guilt, pressure, and expectation on myself. All those things can serve as great motivation, but I tend to let them get the best of me more often than not. Does that ever happen to you guys? Any tips on letting go of some of those feelings?
  • I was reminded of the how important is it to catch up and talk shop with my “colleagues,” freelance or entrepreneurial folks who are in the same boat as me. I had an amazing brunch with my dear Jessie and the sweet ladies of Verily Magazine earlier this week. I’m still feeling fueled and inspired by our conversation. Love that!
  • Ps if you haven’t subscribed to Verily, you definitely should! You can get a taste of the content on their website, but you don’t want to miss out on the print version of this beauty- what these ladies have created is pretty incredible.
  • One more thing on this brunch- we ate at Peels on Bowery, which I had never been to. Food was incredible (I got the spring vegetable hash), and the decor was just darling. Definitely going back there.
  • Loved the feedback and comments on this post about taking pride in your work. It’s nice to know I’m not alone here, and I so appreciate all the advice you guys provided! It’s also given me some ideas on future (interactive) Biz Notes post… so stay tuned for that!
  • Speaking of being proud- I’m so proud (yes, proud!) of a project that came to fruition this week! I helped create a video for one of my recent clients, M.M. LAFLEUR. We showed the video at their launch party a few weeks back, but the video is now available online. It features the amazing story of some truly inspiring ladies- I tear up every time I watch it. You can view it here.
  • Like many of you I’m sure, I was incredibly touched by this refreshingly honest post from Kendi. It’s made me think a lot about some areas I’ve been hesitant to discuss on CC, and made me realize it might actually be better to be open and honest about them rather than excluding them from this space… we shall see.

And with that, I’m off. I leave for a quick 24 hour trip to Dallas tonight for a project with Real Simple, and then it’s back to enjoy the rest of my weekend with a Sunday dinner party. Happy weekend, everyone! xx

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Cacio e Pepe Popcorn

May 16, 2013 by

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We’ve got a ritual when I go home, a ritual firmly implemented by my mom. At 4 or 4:30ish, no matter the day, she makes a big batch of homemade popcorn. And goodness, is this popcorn good. I don’t even need to be hungry- if the popcorn’s there, I will inevitably eat the whole bowl! Yesterday I finally got around to asking my mom for her popcorn technique so I could start making some at home. I had a light bulb moment and decided to take the flavor profile of one of my all time favorite pasta dishes, Cacio e Pepe, and transfer it to the popcorn. Think hot kernels with a bite of pepper and salty cheese. OMGsogood.  But the cool thing is that the options are endless. At home my mom tops the popcorn with sea salt and nutritional yeast- to die for. But she’s also added in things like Tumeric in the past, which was surprisingly good. And that’s just savory side of things… think about the sweet options! Yum.

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Cacio e Pepe Popcorn
Makes about 16 cups popped

  • 1/2 cup popcorn kernels
  • olive oil
  • 1/2 heaping tsp sea salt
  • 1 1/4 cups grated romano cheese
  • freshly ground black pepper

Coat the bottom of a large pot with olive oil- you want just enough to cover the bottom of the pan. Add in the popcorn kernels and shake pot to distribute into an even layer. Sprinkle with sea salt. Put the lid on and crank your burner to the highest. Keep heat on until you hear no more popping. I like to remove my pot from the heat when the popping has really slowed down, so the popcorn at the bottom of the pan doesn’t burn.

Once off the heat, pour the popcorn into a large bowl. Drizzle with a bit more olive, give it a solid 10+ grinds of fresh pepper, and add in the cheese. Toss well to combine. Devour immediately.

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Biz Notes: Are you taking pride in your work?

May 15, 2013 by

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Often times I feel I am almost humble to a fault about my work. Sure, no one likes a bragger (oof, especially me), but I have a feeling that my go to response of “Oh it’s nothing,” or “It’s no big deal, really!” when someone is complimenting me about my work is not the best response. I’m horrible at accepting compliments, can you tell? I have a feeling many of you fall into this category, too. It’s hard, no? It is, but I know it’s important for me (and all of us ladies) to take more pride in our work. Yes, sorry for calling out the ladies. I really do appreciate the men who read this blog (!), but let’s face it- it’s mostly females around these parts :)

In any event, how do we do this? How do we take more pride in our work without leaving a bad taste in someone’s mouth? I’m calling out to you guys today! It probably starts off with a simple thank you when receiving a compliment, but I think it goes beyond that. I’d like to reach that sweet spot where I can confidently discuss my strengths and skills (and really own it), while still maintaining a humble sensibility.

So, let’s dish. Have you guys figured out how to strike that balance? Do you struggle with this, too? Have any tips on how we can find that confident sweet spot? I’d love to hear your thoughts!

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Live Here / Wear This

May 14, 2013 by

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floppy hat, bathing suit (steal), sunglasses, tunic, tote, bracelet, sandals, sunscreen

Isn’t that tiny house by the beach just perfect? It’s in Greece, which is somewhere I’ve been dying to visit.

While summer days at the beach are still just a dream in mid-May, I love using this sandy color palette as inspiration. Pastels work perfectly here, while touches of darker leather work to keep the outfit grounded. That striped linen tunic would be great for both the beach and for exploring a city. In other words, the perfect travel companion. The only things missing are an icy drink, and a wonderfully trashy novel!

Have you purchased a bathing suit for the season yet? I’ve been tempted many, many times while putting this post together.

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